So I have thought really hard on a list of tips tricks anmd advice to my Russian friends I have on Vkontakte. Or to those that would want to know my perspective as an American on Social differences. Ecconomic differences, or other.
I can say in short the USA is very radically different then whatever you see on MTV or some American movie. Do not expect a sterotypical American, it won’t work with everyone.
Tips:
1: If you sterotype an American for anything. It will either piss them off. Or they will absolutely think less of you.
2: The state of New York, New York City, and the State of California and any city in California are NOT normal Americans. (The total population of both states is only 35 million people The total US population is 330 million. I do not live like a New Yorker, or Californian they pay 5-10 times more for things I can get 5-10 times cheaper! Do not expect to understand ANYTHING about America by visiting there.
Californians are selfish idiots, all they talk about is how self important they are. Or how they are above normal people. The same is true of New Yorkers.
3: If you want to understand America at its basis. Everything yes is possible Nothing is possible. And yes everything you pay for is 10-20 times cheaper in the usa.
1 Example: I can legally shoot to kill a person in the USA if I am afraid for my life, tell it to a judge go to court. Then never go to jail for it. (Why because it is Self Defense)
2: The 30-80 Russian Ruble 1-2 liter cola drink or (any drink) is only 5-10 Russian Rubles in the USA. (go to NY expect to pay 300 Rubles! Maybe 900 Rubles for it!!!!)
3: I realize Russian women, and girls from my expierence (I know not all Russian ladies are like this) are living some odd fantasy of what an American guy is looks like or dresses, or would act socially to a Russian girl
Example 1
American men DO NOT dress up. (It is an insult to an American girl for a man to dress up top a social event) So do not expect an American guy to dress highly. (Only for comfort)
I was told many times, and critized by 3 out of 4 girls for dressing casual. As they were wearing high heels and everything else. (Personally this sounds like a date to me or that you are a hooker, or prostitute)
American men that see a girl in high heels will think you are a prostitute if you have these things. (High Heels, makeup, and dress in a skirt, or dress) I know its normal dress in Russia. It is NOT normal in the usa
Example 2:
Do not expect to be paid for in the USA. To be honest there are NO gentlemen in the USA. That died when Women’s Liberation took place in the 1960’s-1970’s
No man will hold the door for you, No man will pay for you. Pay for yourself. If he pays for you. I can guarntee you, you will not see him again. Or when you are gone. He will call a friend and talk about how selfish you are, and dependent you are. More like a phrase "You would not believe the Bitch made me pay for everything" His friends will agree with him, even the American girls.
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Chilvary is dead, Also do not expect to be a housewife. Do not expect to have anything handed to you. As if you were a lady or someone special. Men and Women are equal, you are not higher or better then the man, you are the same. Also do not expect flowers, roses for aaanything.
Romance is dead in the USA. I can tell you I have never bought flowers for any American girl, I do noooot need to. I do not know any American guy that buys flowers.
Expect to be asked within 5-20 minutes, if you want to Fuck, and have sex. The guy is serious. This is a normal relationship in the usa. Every girl I have been with (25-30 girls) Will have sex with me in the usa within 1 hour, or 4 days of meeting.
Example from a photo:
|Fitnat Nasırlıel]gitti guzum :((((June 27 at 5:36pm · Like
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- Dāvis Kuks](sex) :DJune 27 at 5:55pm · Like
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- |Ricky Thomas Cain]lol why sex? We just met at the hostel and are friendsJune 27 at 5:57pm · Like
- Richie St Bernard II]Minaja twa???? However that’s spelled??June 27 at 6:15pm · Like
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- Ricky Thomas Cain]lol you guys these are good nice russian girls. Nothing bad went onJune 27 at 6:16pm · Like
- Tyler Raymo]I believe u Rick. If I were a girl there’s no way I’d sleep with u lolJune 27 at 6:40pm · Like
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- Ricky Thomas Cain]LOLJune 27 at 6:42pm · Like
- |Richie St Bernard II]Shit I was thinkn all the money he spendn on women he cud have braught me along!!!!June 27 at 7:06pm · Like
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- Ricky Thomas Cain]lol its 1200 dollars to get where i am including Russian visa tickets and all.. But i don’t think your a single man Richie 😉 I am single.June 27 at 7:08pm · Like
- |Glenda Kennon]You coming home soon? Looks like you are having a good time.June 28 at 2:46pm · Like
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- |Richie St Bernard II]Haha I wish I had the $ id b there n a heart beat rick. Taken or not! I would fuck all them hoes!!!! June 28 at 8:08pm · Like
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- [https://www.facebook.com/Ricky1146][https://www.facebook.com/Ricky1146|Ricky Thomas Cain]I will be coming home September 5th To be honest American girls only care about sex, or if they are being fucked good enough. If not they will fuck more then 1 guy till they are. If I say no to sex the girl will walk outside and open herself up to any guy wanting.
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When you talk about Moscow, Saint Petersburg being the cheapest cities in the world. They are 4-7 times more costly to me. I disagree largely with it
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Your designer clothes mean NOTHING in the USA. No one cares about it in the USA. Once again to an American if you think you have better things then anyone. You are selfish greedy, and ignortant of others feelings to most americans.
Americans buy the cheapest clothess not the best clothes
Also if you are with an American guy and are fighting or arguing. Guess what will be destroyed first or thrown in the garbage, what you treasure most!
I have had several relationships where a American girlfriend will destroy trash, and throw it in the garbage. Cause I prize it. I in turn threw all the Ex girlfriend’s clothes in the trash as retalation.
Expect to be degraded called a bitch at any time. It is normal. in a Normal relationship. Even with my grandparents.
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I do agree any girl in Eastern Europe & Russia is beautiful. Most girls in the usa are 150-200 kilos
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Americans go to College/Universities for 2-4 yeears. Not 4-8 years
9 I will add more when I think of it…. Keep in mind I am being brutally honest because I can say are huge gaping differencces between the USa & Russia.
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